You know girl I work so hard trying to be The man you wanted me to be That even some of my oldest friends Don't regognize me They passed right by me on the street But yesterday an old friend of yours Came up to me and called me By another name Seems I reminded her so much Of the man you used to love She thought I was him Now, we just ended up laughing And how she's been mistaken But after she left you know It started me to think People do some crazy things for love And you changed me into a Completely different man Now I gotta know Do you remind me of Or who I am Who do you love (do you love, do you love) Who do you love (do you love, do you love) I changed my whole life for you Changed my attitude Every thing I do I gave up the friends I had Traded in my wrap I'm a different man And now that I've become Every thing you want Tell me who do you love Is it him or me Who do you love (do you love, do you love) Who do you love (do you love, do you love) I gave away all my clothes Bought the things you chose Girl I sold my soul Now I just a part be of Who you used to love Is this what you want Girl you only know Do I spin and go Or am I be loved Is it him or me You took away my identity You're telling me You made a man out of me When I look in the mirror I can still see myself But when you look at me baby Are you seeing someone else Is it him or me When you look at me Tell me who'd you see Is it him or me