Day number 4 Being the perfect partner for your perfect partner Yesterday, we discussed the importance of being whole and happy Before your partner shows up Rather than relying on another person to make you feel complete. That's a powerful start but there's also other things you can do To boost the likelihood of attracting the type of partner you want Today I encouraged you to make a detailed list of the qualities and Trait you'd like your perfect partner to have What do you imagine he or she will look like What type of personality will he or she have What aspirations of ambitions for the future will she or he have Use as much details as you can Covering everything from career to personality Spiritual beliefs, physical appearance and beyond When you finished, read over the list Did you include everything you want your perfect partner to have Now here comes the fun part Go the heck over the list and check out the descriptions that fit you Do you have the same type of Spiritual beliefs you want your partner to have Do you have the same type of personality Do you have the same level of goals and ambitions in your life Don't worry if you don't have all the traits That's not the point of this Exercise, instead notice how many you do have Compare to how many you don't Then ask yourself this question Would I be the perfect partner for this person I want to attract Obviously you and your partner are 2 separate people So there will be differences in your personality and goals But if the differences are too great What makes you think your perfect Partner would be attracted to someone He or she has almost nothing in common with If the traits and quality on your list are important to you You need to start developing them within yourself first Then when your perfect partner arrives on the seen He or she will quickly recognize a kindred soul And sparks are much more likely to fly There are other factors involve of course But being the perfect partner for your Perfect partner is a very big start of it