Before we say goodnight Look down and call for time Before we walk away Just think I wish that I could say This heart will never break Before we start again Let's think We've felt too much to fall Don't bow when the curtain calls Before we lose it all Before we lose it all If it's not hard enough If it don't hurt enough If it's not hard to find If it don't change your life Then it's not love It's never how you planned And when you've lost all hope That's when you'll understand Maybe it's my mistake I say too much to late Till we communicate Again Don't hide when the rain falls If it's easy then it can't be love Before we lose it all Before we lose it all If it's not hard enough If it don't hurt enough If it's not hard to find If it don't change your life Then it's not love Not love 'Cause love is not a plan Not ours to understand 'Cause love Yes love Is all we really have If it's not hard enough If it don't hurt enough If it's not hard to find If it don't change your life Then it's not love Not love, oh Then it's not love (hard to find) Then it's not love (change your life) Then it's not love Not love, oh Then it's not love