That's not a topic that comes up On you know, your GCSE, yeah communication We can talk about debating and all that stuff But we don't actually get taught how to communicate With another person, where you're not shuttin' them down Or, or you're not hijacking Or you're not there taking the experience And, and taking into something completely different Know when you're shutting down? Like having a conversation with someone and I will And I will have shut down and I'm still talking To this person and they don't even realize